Formality and Informality

In the former Soviet Union work relationships can take on an informal tone. I mean this in the most appropriate sense of course. In this case, I am studying Chechen with a Kist woman here in Tbilisi, Georgia as well as studying Georgian with a private teacher and perusing card catalogues at the I. Javakhishvili Institute for History. I have met some extraordinary people while here and feel very lucky about that. Sometimes work, however, got so inextricably intertwined with the rest of my life . . .

You see; I lived with the sister of my Chechen teacher and her parents very sincerely welcomed me under the auspices of their roof. In short, I have been treated as a family member in this situation. Moreover, due to the nature of my historical research and language study I have met a lot of people involved in Caucasian culture and politics. And I feel very close to the land and people. I’m a part of it and it’s a part of me. But, where does this leave work? What about integrity? And what about if necessary politeness puts the researcher in a place where he or she is not receiving the educational exchange that is due?

There is definitely a fine line to carefully tread. But do not fall over! I take a generous and respectful approach to handling any such situations. However, I am always cautious not to let people take undue advantage. As unpleasant as it is to think about, it is still an important issue. I think it’s key never to forget that business is business. No matter how close you are with your professors, local colleagues or host family do not forget that, (in most cases), if the relationship is not in some way profitable for them they will not extend it - at least not in sincerity. Thus, I believe it is wise for the researcher also to maintain a similarly cool attitude.

I have been very fortunate here in Tbilisi, in particular regarding my research fellowship at the Institute of History. The Director has been very hospitable, respectable and kind.  After discussing the scope of my research project, we drew up a formal contract stipulating the conditions of my research fellowship at the Institute. Although he did not absolutely require any payment for my use of the facilities, I decided that each month I would indeed make a set payment for it. In exchange office space, consultation parameters and so on were provided. I strongly recommend making such formal arrangements. Your host or hostess will appreciate your concerns for their interests and will treat you with respect.

It is also crucial that they take you seriously as a serious scholar. When I first met the director here he was actually very surprised I showed up. He said that foreign scholars do not do usually do anything much as a “fellow,” if they even show up at all. Please, do not let this be you! Work hard, earn your keep, and maintain a pleasant countenance. If along with this, you are generous and respectful in your dealings with professors, colleagues and teachers, while yet keeping a cool mind, your research or study project abroad will bring you nothing but success.

Sarah Slye is studying Georgian and Chechen in Tbilisi, Georgia